Breastfeeding is Hard Work

I have officially made it to 5 months breastfeeding my third child. My first baby I quit after 4 weeks and the second I quit after about 16 weeks. With this being my last go around I wanted to giving breastfeeding a real chance. I believe in the benefits breastfeeding has to offer my little one. The bond I have with my baby boy is amazing! The only thing is breastfeeding and pumping is very time consuming and I’m a busy mom.

The truth is sometimes I want to give in because it can be so overwhelming. I truly enjoying breastfeeding but it’s hard trying to work 40+ hours a week, maintain my household, complete chores and find time to pump. I want to switch to bottle feeding the baby (especially at night) but I’m too lazy to pump as often as I should. Pumping is so exhausting! I feel like the pump sucks up all of my energy leaving me drowsy and ready for a nap. At times pumping can be so discouraging. I wish I could fill up 8 oz bottles every time I go to pump so I can store enough to bottle fed. Unfortunately, I don’t and it gets to me at times. Every month that I’ve managed to continue breastfeeding I do celebrate myself. I know that I’m making a selfless decision by giving my baby the best option. Plus I don’t have to worry myself about the cost of formula.

I’m enjoying our breastfeeding journey and I’d love to breastfeed until he’s two. This has not been easy though. Breastfeeding is hard work! I’d love to hear from other moms. Am I the only one that feels like this? Please, feel free share your journeys with me.

“Breastfeeding is a mother’s gift to herself, her baby and the earth”.

-Pamela K. Wiggins

4 thoughts on “Breastfeeding is Hard Work

  1. I think I always wanted to quit lol but I was able to breastfeed both my boys until about 1 and 1/2. It’s not easy, but I grew to love it and then terribly missed it when it was all over. I guess for me and what it always is for me is trying to conquer a challenge. I also liked feeling like we had a special bond, but none of that makes it easier! Sorry I wish I could be more helpful. I don’t know if you pump as well, but I started to appreciate that time too by doing something for me while I pumped. I’ve been thinking of writing about breastfeeding as well. Thanks for sharing!

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    1. Thank you for your feedback. Honestly I’m a terrible pumper. I get lazy and discouraged. Now hes biting me with thoughs gum and I say I’m going to quit but I don’t. Honestly i love it! Its the bond like you mentioned it just is hard work lol

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  2. Pumping is so hard! You’re definitely not the only who feels like that. I never liked pumping either. What worked for me was when my babies were older (like around 18 months) and I couldn’t breastfeed during the day because of work, I offered them plant-based milk during the day (like oat milk or almond milk) if they wanted milk, but still breastfed them as much as they wanted at night and on weekends. It worked out pretty well for us. Best of luck on making it to age 2! You sound like a great mom for even making it this far!!


    1. Thank you I appreciate it. He’s 9 months now and we are still going. I quit pumping and I decided to just keep exclusively breastfeeding. Nights are hard at times but I love the cuddles. Might as well take advantage right!? Thats definitely good to know thank you for the words of encouragement.


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